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Condolence Messages for Father

Lost for words after hearing that someone’s father has died? A sincere message sent today is kinder than a perfect message sent too late.

Find thoughtful condolence messages for the loss of a father, with choices for private WhatsApp texts, cards, calls, office groups, social-media replies and condolence visits. Pick by your relationship with the bereaved person, the tone you need, the language that feels natural, and whether the family has shared a religious preference. There are short, formal, heartfelt, non-religious, Hindi and Hinglish options, plus guidance for offering practical help without expecting a reply.

What you'll find here

  • Short WhatsApp messages
  • Messages for friends and colleagues
  • Hindi and Hinglish wording
  • Religious and non-religious choices
  • What to say in a card or call
  • Practical help and follow-up
  • Phrases to avoid

Editor's pick

heartfelt

Your father had a way of making ordinary moments feel special. I still remember how he would insist everyone eat one more samosa before leaving. That small habit says so much about his warmth. I’m heartbroken for you, and I hope you never feel you have to carry this grief neatly or alone. I’ll remember him with affection, and I’ll be here for the difficult days, the quiet evenings, and the unexpected moments when a memory catches you by surprise. No need to reply to this message. Just know that I’m holding you and your family close.

Short and respectful

Use these brief messages for WhatsApp, SMS, a social-media comment or a quick personal acknowledgement.

heartfelt

My heartfelt condolences on your father’s passing. May you find strength in the days ahead.

formal

With sincere condolences for the loss of your father. May your family be surrounded by kindness and support.

Heartfelt and personal

Choose a warmer note when you know the family well or want to mention the father’s memory, kindness or influence.

heartfelt

I keep thinking about your father’s kindness—the way he listened properly, remembered small details, and made people feel welcome. Those qualities don’t disappear; they continue in the people he shaped, especially you. I know this loss may feel impossible to understand right now, and I won’t offer easy explanations. I only want you to know that you don’t have to answer calls, host visitors, or find the right words for anyone. If you need food dropped at the door, an errand handled, or someone to sit quietly beside you, tell me. I’m here, without expectations.

heartfelt

Your father’s presence was part of the rhythm of your home—the familiar voice, the advice nobody asked for but usually needed, the little routines that seemed ordinary until they suddenly weren’t there. I’m so sorry those everyday moments have become painful reminders. Please be gentle with yourself. Grief may arrive as tears, silence, anger, laughter, or even a perfectly normal afternoon followed by a difficult night. All of it belongs. I’m thinking of you with so much care, and I’ll keep checking in, even if you don’t feel ready to respond.

heartfelt

I never met your father, but I know from the way you speak about him that he mattered deeply. The stories you’ve shared about his humour, his standards, and the way he showed up for family have stayed with me. I’m sorry you’re facing this loss. I won’t pretend to know exactly what you need, but I can be present in practical ways: I can bring dinner, pick something up, or simply sit with you without trying to fill the silence. You don’t need to reply now. I’m thinking of you and your family.

heartfelt

I’ll always remember your father’s calm smile and the way he greeted everyone as though they were already part of the family. He had a quiet generosity that made people feel safe. Losing someone like that leaves an emptiness no message can fix, so I won’t pretend these words are enough. I just want you to know that his life touched more people than he may have realised. I’m here for you in the immediate days and later too, when the visitors have gone and the house feels especially quiet. Please lean on me whenever you can.

heartfelt

There are some people whose influence lives in small habits: the way we make tea, greet guests, keep promises, or stand by family when things are difficult. I can see your father in so many of the qualities you carry. I’m deeply sorry that you have lost him. I hope, in time, the memories that hurt most now will also become a source of warmth. For today, you don’t need to be strong or available. I’ll take care of whatever small task I can—groceries, a meal, a ride, or simply a quiet check-in.

heartfelt

Your father’s love was visible in the details: the calls, the questions about whether you had eaten, the advice repeated with perfect confidence, and the way he kept showing up. I’m so sorry those familiar gestures have been taken from you. There is no correct timetable for missing him, and no need to make your grief comfortable for other people. Take each hour as it comes. I’ll remember him with respect, and I’ll stay close to you through the days when you want company and the days when you want only quiet.

heartfelt

I’m thinking of the stories you told me about your father and the way your face changed whenever you spoke about him. That kind of bond is precious, and losing it can make the world feel unfamiliar. I’m not going to say that time will quickly make this better. I only hope you have people around you who can help you carry today. I’m one of them. I can listen to the same story more than once, bring chai, answer messages, or sit beside you without conversation. Please don’t worry about replying.

heartfelt

Your father’s patience, humour, and steady care clearly helped shape the person you are. I know that may be comforting and painful to hear at the same time. For now, there is no need to look for a lesson in this loss or to make sense of it for anyone else. Let yourself miss him in whatever way comes naturally. I’m holding you in my thoughts, and I’ll continue to check in after the ceremonies and calls have slowed down. Grief deserves company beyond the first few days.

heartfelt

Some memories arrive through the smallest things—a chair left in its usual place, a familiar ringtone, a favourite dish, or an old phrase only he used. I’m sorry you’re having to meet those moments without your father. May the love he gave you remain close, even when the pain feels louder. You don’t have to explain how you’re doing, and you don’t have to respond to me. I’ll be here steadily, not just today but in the weeks and months when others may have returned to their routines.

heartfelt

I’m deeply sorry for the loss of your father. From everything you’ve shared, he was a person of warmth and strong values, and his influence will continue through your family. Please accept my love and sympathy. I know there is nothing I can say to remove this pain, but I can make sure you don’t face every practical burden alone. I’ll call next week, and if you need anything before then—food, transport, help with errands, or simply someone who will listen—send me one word. No detailed reply is needed.

heartfelt

My heart goes out to you. Your father’s memory will live in the stories, values, and everyday kindnesses he passed on to your family. I’m sorry for the silence his absence leaves behind. Please take care of yourself gently, accept help when it is offered, and ignore anyone who expects you to grieve on a schedule. I’ll keep you company in whatever way is useful—quietly, practically, or simply by listening. With affection and deepest sympathy.

heartfelt

I’ll always remember your father’s habit of making room for one more person at the table, even when dinner was already being served. He had a quiet way of making people feel welcome, and that kindness has clearly stayed with you. I know nothing I say can fill the space he has left behind, but I hope you’ll let the people who love you sit beside you through the hard days. No need to reply—just tell me when you need food, company, or someone to listen to the same story again.

heartfelt

The way you speak about your father—with that mix of love, irritation, laughter, and respect—makes it clear how deeply he was part of your everyday life. I’m so sorry you’re having to learn a world without his calls, advice, and familiar presence. Be gentle with yourself in the days ahead. I’ll check in again next week, and if you need anything before then, I can come over, bring dinner, or simply sit with you in silence.

heartfelt

Mujhe yaad hai aapke Papa ke baare mein aap kaise batate the—unki chhoti-chhoti aadatein, unka sabko sambhal lena, aur ghar mein unki maujoodgi. Unke jaane ka dukh bahut gehra hoga, aur is waqt aapko strong dikhne ki zaroorat nahi hai. Main aapke saath hoon—chahe baat karni ho, chup rehna ho, ya bas chai ke saath kuch der baithna ho. Reply ki bilkul zaroorat nahi.

heartfelt

Some fathers leave their mark in grand speeches; yours seems to have done it in the everyday things—the advice you still remember, the standards you quietly follow, and the way you show up for people. I’m grateful for the glimpses of him you’ve shared with me, especially the stories that made you laugh even while pretending to be annoyed. I’m deeply sorry for this loss. His absence will be felt in many ordinary moments, but so will the love and wisdom he gave you. I’m here for the long stretch after the visitors leave, when the house becomes quiet again.

Formal messages for colleagues and elders

These suit workplace messages, community groups, acquaintances, neighbours and condolence cards.

formal

Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your father. May you and your family find courage and support during this difficult period.

formal

I was saddened to learn of your father’s demise. Kindly accept my deepest sympathy, and please convey my condolences to your family.

formal

On behalf of our team, please accept our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your father. We are thinking of you and your family.

formal

We were sorry to hear of your father’s passing. His memory will be held with respect by all who knew him.

formal

Please accept my deepest sympathies at this sad time. I hope you and your family are surrounded by care and support.

formal

Our thoughts are with you and your family as you mourn the loss of your father. Please do not hesitate to let us know if practical support is needed.

formal

I extend my sincere condolences to you and your family on the passing of your respected father. May his memory remain a source of comfort.

formal

We were deeply saddened to receive this news. Please accept our respectful condolences and our support during this period of grief.

formal

My sincere condolences on your father’s passing. Please take the time you need, and be assured that your responsibilities here will be handled with understanding.

formal

It is with great sadness that I learned of your loss. I extend my sympathy to you, your family, and all those who valued your father’s presence.

formal

Please accept the condolences of our entire department. We are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and will respect your need for privacy.

formal

I am sorry to hear about the passing of your father. His role in your family and community is remembered with respect. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

formal

Kindly accept my condolences on this bereavement. I wish you and your family peace, strength, and the support of those around you.

formal

Our community shares your sorrow at the loss of your father. Please know that our thoughts and practical support are available to your family.

formal

I was very sorry to learn of your father’s passing. Please accept my sincere sympathy, and forgive me if I do not call at once; I wanted to respect your space.

formal

With deepest respect, I offer my condolences to your family. May the memories of your father’s life and contribution remain a lasting source of comfort.

Non-religious and universal

A thoughtful choice when you don’t know the family’s beliefs or prefer to focus on remembrance and support.

heartfelt

I’m sorry for the loss of your father. I won’t assume what you believe or tell you how to grieve; I simply want you to know that you’re not alone.

heartfelt

Your father’s life mattered, and so does the grief you’re carrying now. I’m thinking of you and am here without expectations.

heartfelt

I’m deeply sorry. May the memories, routines, and stories you shared with your father bring gentle moments of connection over time.

heartfelt

There are no perfect words for losing a father. I’m here to listen, help with practical things, or sit quietly whenever you need.

heartfelt

I’m sorry your family is going through this. You don’t need to reply or explain anything; I’ll keep checking in with care.

heartfelt

Your father will be remembered through the people he loved, the choices he influenced, and the small habits he left behind. I’m thinking of you.

heartfelt

I’m so sorry for this loss. If meals, shopping, transport, or a little company would help, I can take care of one of those things—no need to organise me.

heartfelt

I wish I could make this easier. I can’t, but I can stay present and let you speak about your father—or not speak at all.

heartfelt

I’m sorry. The absence of a father can be felt in the most ordinary moments, and I hope you have gentle company through each one.

heartfelt

Thinking of you with care and respect. I hope the kindness of family and friends gives you some support as you remember your father.

heartfelt

I didn’t know your father personally, so I won’t pretend otherwise. I do know that this is a profound loss for you, and I’m here to support you.

heartfelt

Your grief doesn’t need to look a certain way. I’m sorry for the loss of your father, and I’ll respect whatever distance or company you need.

heartfelt

I’m thinking of you today. May the stories you tell, the photographs you keep, and the love you shared with your father remain close to you.

heartfelt

No explanation can make this fair or easy. I’m sorry, and I’m available for the unglamorous help that grief often brings—food, calls, errands, or company.

heartfelt

Your father’s absence will take time to understand. Please be patient with yourself, and know that you can reach me even if all you send is a full stop.

heartfelt

I’m deeply sorry for your loss. I hope the people around you give you room to grieve honestly and steady support when the days feel heavy.

Hindi and natural Hinglish

Find respectful Hindi and Roman-script Hindi-English wording for families who communicate comfortably in either style.

heartfelt

पिताजी के निधन का समाचार सुनकर बहुत दुःख हुआ। आपको और आपके पूरे परिवार को मेरी गहरी संवेदनाएँ।

heartfelt

आपके पिता के निधन पर मेरी हार्दिक संवेदनाएँ। ईश्वर आपको और परिवार को इस कठिन समय में शक्ति दे।

heartfelt

Aapke Papa ke guzarne ki khabar sunkar bahut dukh hua. Main aapke aur aapke parivaar ke saath hoon.

heartfelt

Papa ke jaane ka dukh shabdon mein kehna mushkil hai. Aapko jab bhi meri zaroorat ho, main yahin hoon.

heartfelt

आपके पिताजी को भावपूर्ण श्रद्धांजलि। इस दुख की घड़ी में मेरी संवेदनाएँ आपके साथ हैं।

heartfelt

Aapke pitaji ki yaadein hamesha aapke saath rahengi. Meri taraf se aapko aur parivaar ko dil se samvedana.

religious

ॐ शांति। आपके पिताजी की आत्मा को शांति मिले और परिवार को इस कठिन समय में धैर्य मिले।

formal

Aapke pita ji ke nidhan par meri gehri samvedana. Kripya meri taraf se sabhi parivaarwalon ko santvana dein.

heartfelt

आपके पिताजी का स्नेह और उनका मार्गदर्शन हमेशा आपकी स्मृतियों में जीवित रहेगा। मेरी हार्दिक संवेदनाएँ।

heartfelt

Mujhe bahut afsos hai. Aapko abhi reply karne ki zaroorat nahi hai—bas itna samajhiye ki main aapke saath hoon.

heartfelt

पिताजी के जाने से घर की बहुत-सी छोटी-छोटी बातें भी बदल जाती हैं। आपको जब भोजन, यात्रा या किसी काम में मदद चाहिए, मुझे बताइए।

heartfelt

Aapke Papa ki muskurahat aur unki baaton ko hum hamesha yaad rakhenge. Is dukh mein meri poori samvedana aapke saath hai.

formal

आपके पिता के निधन का समाचार अत्यंत दुःखद है। कृपया हमारी ओर से परिवार के सभी सदस्यों को संवेदना प्रेषित करें।

heartfelt

Aapke pitaji ke liye meri shraddhanjali. Unki seekh aur unka pyaar aapki zindagi mein hamesha bana rahega.

formal

इस अपूरणीय क्षति पर मेरी गहरी संवेदनाएँ। आपको शोक मनाने के लिए जितना समय चाहिए, उतना लें; हम आपके साथ हैं।

heartfelt

Papa ki yaadon ko sambhalna aasaan nahi hoga. Main aapko call karunga, lekin aapko baat karne ka mann na ho toh koi baat nahi.

Faith-specific messages

Use Hindu, Muslim, Sikh, Christian or Jain wording only when the family has clearly indicated that tradition.

religious

ॐ शांति। आपके पिताजी की आत्मा को सद्गति मिले और आप सभी को इस कठिन समय में धैर्य और शक्ति प्राप्त हो।

religious

May Allah grant your father mercy, forgive his shortcomings, and bless him with Jannat. May Allah give your family sabr and strength.

religious

Waheguru mehar kare. May your father’s soul rest in Waheguru’s presence, and may your family find strength through this grief.

religious

I’m praying that God grants your father eternal rest and surrounds your family with comfort, peace, and loving support.

religious

णमोकार मंत्र की शांति और करुणा आपके परिवार को इस कठिन समय में सहारा दे। आपके पिताजी को विनम्र श्रद्धांजलि।

religious

ॐ शांति। आपके पिताजी के लिए प्रार्थना और आपके परिवार के लिए धैर्य की कामना करता हूँ।

religious

May Allah ease your family’s sorrow and grant your father mercy. Please know that you are in my duas.

religious

May Waheguru bless your father’s soul and give your family chardi kala and courage in the days ahead.

religious

I’m keeping your father and your family in my prayers. May God’s presence bring comfort through every difficult day.

religious

आपके पिताजी की आत्मा को शांति और सद्गति मिले। ईश्वर आपको तथा आपके परिवार को यह दुःख सहने की शक्ति दे।

religious

May your father find eternal peace in God’s care, and may the love of your church community hold your family close.

religious

Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh. My heartfelt condolences on the passing of your father. May the family be given strength.

religious

Allah aapke walid ko maghfirat ata farmaye aur unhein Jannat naseeb kare. Aap sab ko sabr aur himmat mile.

religious

अहिंसा और शांति की भावना आपके परिवार को सहारा दे। आपके पिताजी की स्मृति को सादर नमन।

religious

May God receive your father with mercy and grant your family peace. I’ll continue to pray for you beyond the funeral and ceremonies.

religious

आपके पिताजी के लिए प्रार्थना, और आपके परिवार के लिए मेरी गहरी संवेदनाएँ। परिवार की परंपरा के अनुसार जो भी प्रार्थना हो, उसमें मैं मन से आपके साथ हूँ।

For a friend, colleague or someone you never met

Pick wording that fits your exact connection, including a close friend, office contact, father-in-law, stepfather or an unfamiliar loss.

heartfelt

I’m so sorry, yaar. I know how much your father meant to you, and I’m here for the calls, the silence, and the terrible days in between.

heartfelt

I never had the chance to meet your father, but I know this loss is enormous for you. I’m thinking of you and your family.

formal

I’m sorry about your father. Please don’t worry about work right now—we’ll manage things here and give you the space you need.

formal

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your father-in-law. I’m thinking of you, your spouse, and the entire family.

heartfelt

Your stepfather’s loss is deeply sad. I know relationships can be complicated, so I’m here for whatever this grief looks like for you.

heartfelt

I’m sorry to hear about your father. I won’t ask for details; I just wanted you to know that your classmates are thinking of you.

heartfelt

I’m deeply sorry for the loss of your father. I didn’t know him personally, but I know how loved and important he was in your family.

heartfelt

Please accept my sympathy on your father’s passing. I’m your neighbour, and if collecting groceries or answering the door would help, I’m nearby.

formal

I’m sorry, Boss. Please focus on your family; we’ll take care of the office work here. There’s no need to respond.

heartfelt

I’m thinking of you after your father’s passing. I know we aren’t very close, but I didn’t want to let the moment pass without acknowledging your loss.

heartfelt

I’m sorry about your Dad. I can bring dinner tonight or sit with you for a while—choose neither if you need space; I’ll understand.

heartfelt

Your father’s death must be especially difficult after the distance between you. You don’t have to describe your feelings as simple or uncomplicated. I’m here without judgement.

heartfelt

I’m sorry for your loss. Since I didn’t know your father, I won’t invent stories about him, but I can listen to yours whenever you want to share them.

heartfelt

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your adoptive father. The love, history, and bond you shared deserve to be remembered with care.

heartfelt

I heard about your father and wanted to reach out privately rather than add to the messages in the group. I’m very sorry. Reply only if and when you feel able.

heartfelt

For the phone call: “I’m so sorry about your father. You don’t have to talk—I just wanted to hear your voice and tell you I’m here. I’ll let you rest now, and I’ll check in later.”

Choose a message in ten seconds

Start with the relationship, not the most impressive-sounding phrase. A close friend may appreciate direct warmth and an offer to sit with them; a colleague may need a restrained message that acknowledges the death, expresses sympathy and gives them space. If you knew the father personally, add a truthful detail about his humour, generosity, advice or the way he welcomed people. A small real memory is more meaningful than a long list of grand adjectives.

Next, choose the channel. A private WhatsApp message can be personal and include “no need to reply”. A workplace group should be brief and avoid private details, photographs or speculation about the cause of death. A card can hold a longer note, while a public comment should acknowledge the family without making their grief into a conversation for everyone to see.

If you never met the father, don’t pretend that you did. Say that you’re sorry to hear about the loss and that you’re thinking of the family. For a complicated or distant relationship, keep the wording neutral: acknowledge the death, recognise that this may be a difficult time, and offer support without describing the relationship as loving, close or uncomplicated. The same care applies to a stepfather, adoptive father, father-in-law or estranged parent.

Make the words personal without making them heavy

A useful personal note has three parts: name the loss plainly, share a genuine quality or memory if you have one, and offer support. You might refer to the father’s calm advice, his habit of making guests feel at home, or a story the family has already shared. Don’t invent a memory or assume what he was like. If you only know him through your friend’s stories, say that those stories helped you understand how much he meant to them.

Practical help can be gentler than a broad promise to do anything. Offer to arrange food, pick up relatives from the station, handle a small errand, share class or office notes, or check in after the rituals are over. Phrase it so there’s no pressure to respond. During cremation, burial, prayer meetings, Ardas, dua or other family observances, people may be busy and exhausted; silence after your message doesn’t mean it was unwelcome.

For a phone call, keep your opening simple and pause. The bereaved person may want to talk, cry, sit quietly or end the call quickly. You don’t need to fill every silence or ask for the details of the death. Listening without correcting their feelings is often more helpful than trying to explain why the loss happened.

Hindi, Hinglish and faith-sensitive wording

Hindi condolence language can be formal and deeply respectful, using terms such as पिताजी, श्रद्धांजलि, आत्मा को शांति and सद्गति. These expressions belong in clearly labelled Hindi or Hindu-oriented choices, not in every message to an Indian family. Roman-script Hinglish may feel more natural for a close friend texting from a phone, while Devanagari can suit elders, family groups and formal notes.

India’s families follow many faiths and traditions, and even families within the same religion may prefer different rituals. References to moksha, ॐ शांति, Allah’s mercy, Jannat, Waheguru, Ardas, Jesus or eternal rest should be opt-in. Use them when the family has used that language, included it in an announcement, or told you what would feel appropriate. If you’re unsure, choose a universal message about remembrance, strength, peace and support.

Don’t combine several religious expressions in an attempt to cover every possibility. That can sound careless rather than inclusive. A non-religious message is not cold; it can honour the father’s life, recognise the family’s grief and offer presence without making claims about the afterlife. Folded-hands or heart emojis may suit a private WhatsApp exchange, but they’re optional and usually best avoided in formal office or public messages.

What to avoid, and how to support them later

Skip phrases that rush grief or explain it away. “Be strong”, “everything happens for a reason”, “at least he lived a long life” and “he is in a better place” may conflict with the family’s feelings or beliefs. Don’t compare the loss with your own experience unless the bereaved person brings that up. Avoid asking how he died, requesting photographs or sharing news beyond what the family has announced.

A group message should be clear and restrained. Don’t reveal medical information, the cause of death, funeral arrangements or family disagreements unless the family has already made those details public. For a condolence visit, follow the household’s lead: dress and behave according to their instructions, offer a quiet greeting, and don’t expect refreshments or conversation. If you’re unsure about a ritual, ask a trusted family member privately rather than guessing.

Support often fades after the funeral, which is when a short follow-up can matter. Check in after several days, later in the month, on a birthday or anniversary, or around a festival that may feel different without their father. You can mention that there’s no need to reply and offer a specific, manageable form of help. Grief doesn’t follow a timetable, and neither does care.

Just for fun

What if my message sounds awkward?Show the answer

It probably will feel a little awkward because grief is hard, not because you’ve failed. Keep it honest, short and kind; sincerity beats a polished speech.

Should I add a folded-hands emoji?Show the answer

Only if it fits your relationship and the family’s usual style. It’s fine for some private WhatsApp messages, but skip emojis in formal office notes or public comments.

Do I need to reply if they answer with just “thank you”?Show the answer

No. You can respond gently, or simply let the exchange rest. They may be managing dozens of messages and may not have energy for a conversation.

Questions people ask

What is the best condolence message for someone whose father died?

The best message is sincere, specific to the relationship and free of pressure. Acknowledge the loss plainly, say that you’re thinking of them, and add a real memory or practical offer if you have one.

What can I text a friend whose dad passed away?

A private text can be warm and direct. Mention that you’re sorry about their father, say you’re available to listen or help, and add that they don’t need to reply immediately.

What is a short condolence message for WhatsApp?

Keep it to a sentence or two: acknowledge the father’s death, express sympathy and give the family space. Short wording is especially suitable for a group, status reply or acquaintance.

How do I write a condolence message in Hindi for a father’s death?

Use respectful terms such as पिताजी or श्रद्धांजलि if they fit the family’s language and tradition. Hindi, Devanagari and Roman-script Hinglish options are available here, with faith-related phrases labelled so you can choose carefully.

What should I say if I did not know the person’s father?

Don’t claim a personal memory. Say that you’re sorry to hear about their father’s death, recognise their family’s loss and offer quiet support.

How do I offer condolences to a colleague whose father died?

Use a respectful private note or a restrained office message. Offer practical workplace support, such as covering a task or sharing updates, without expecting the colleague to explain anything or respond.

Should I call or send a text when someone’s father dies?

Follow the closeness of your relationship and what the person usually prefers. A text is considerate when you’re unsure or need to express yourself clearly; a call can help when you’re close, as long as you allow them to talk or end it quickly.

What should I avoid saying to someone grieving their father?

Avoid forced positivity, religious claims you haven’t been invited to make, comparisons with your own loss and questions about the cause of death. Don’t tell them to be strong or suggest that grief should be over after the funeral.

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